Clear Signs That You and Your Spouse Needs Marriage Counseling

Clear Signs That You and Your Spouse Needs Marriage Counseling

2018-11-20T06:06:10+00:00November 20th, 2018|

Your marriage is important for a variety of reasons. When you have a healthy marriage, it’ll be easier for you to function as a spouse, parent, and individual. Your quality of life will improve as well. However, when your marriage is on the rocks, none of these will happen. Worse, your overall quality of life will be adversely affected.

Marriage counseling is a common solution for couples who want to save their marriage. If both parties acknowledge the occurrence of unending arguments and disagreements every day, it is easier to seek professional help through marriage counseling.

Here are other signs that tell you that you need marriage counseling.

  1. When you or your spouse aren’t talking anymore: Arguments can be avoided and resolved by simply talking. You and your spouse can sit down for dinner at home and talk about each other’s differences and concerns. Doing this will allow you to know how your spouse really feels, and at the same time, your spouse will also understand how you feel. However, when you and your spouse are no longer talking, marriage counseling can help. A therapist can provide different mediums for communication suitable for you and your spouse.
  2. When you and your spouse are talking but in a negative way: Sure, you and your spouse might be talking, but if it only makes the other person feel ashamed, guilty, or judged, your marriage isn’t going in the right direction. Conversations involve not only what you say but also on how you say it. Negative conversations – whether it involves using hurtful words or shouting at a person – can result in emotional abuse, which is not part of a healthy marriage.
  3. When you or your spouse feels like the other party is the antagonist: You and your spouse are long-term partners. This means that you should have each other’s back no matter what happens. You should be allies, not adversaries. Once you’re starting to feel that you and your spouse are always on the opposing side of any matter, it’s time to seek professional help.
  4. When you or your spouse keeps secrets: Being married doesn’t automatically mean that you’ll lose your privacy. In fact, maintaining each other’s privacy is an essential factor to have a successful marriage. But if you or your spouse is keeping secrets, that’s another story. This isn’t healthy and can even lead to bigger problems, such as infidelity.

Let the Pros Help

It’s common for married couples to go through tough times. These challenges actually make the marriage strong and resilient. But if these challenges become too severe that both parties already run out of patience or desire to fix the marriage, consider marriage counseling. With the experience and training of therapists, marriage counseling works by resolving conflicts and strengthening communication – all of these can contribute to a happy and fulfilling marriage!

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